BE AWARE!! This code is well-posted and is presumed to have been read by all who do things here. Violations will be met with anything from a warning to permanent, total ban, depending on how serious or obvious but 3 public warnings and you will be dismissed. What you do on your own time and in your own place is your business, what goes on here is MINE!!

Please understand these things because they can have serious results: 1) You do not have an unconditional right to be here or use what is here or anywhere else like here. As with all privately run places, your continued existence here is conditional and is based upon terms which we both find agreeable. I would not want to be at a place the terms of use of which I would not be in at least substantial agreement with; it would make me uncomfortable. In fact this is not a general ABDL place, it is a specialized site, designed for specific kinds of persons and not others. That does not make the others evil or wrong, just not of interest to us. 2) Some things are illegal. This means that neither you nor we have any right to put just anything we may feel like at the moment here and can be properly dealt with by the forces of the Law if we knowingly violoate those laws and are duely warned and informed if we do so unknowingly, so long as such laws and their consequences are clearly stated. 3) We have standards that include and go beyond the requirements of the law. We tolerates some things but not others.. This is to keep this place from becoming a pigsty, dive or whatever term you care to use, and to keep it feminine and girlish. We are sticklers about that to avoid trouble and to not allow even the beginnings of situations that could lead to anything with which we do not wish to deal. 4)Authenticity. To make sure that you understand the conditions of the time and place,. Bringing a Barbie doll in here just deos not go. Even my beloved Yogi Bearr is verboten [sigh], not to mention Talky Tin...er...Chatty Cathy. They just did not exist in 1951. 5) As part of the alt lifestyle scene, we do not know who comes here. Therefore we need to make sure that whoever does reads and understands what SandraLyn means in practice and is willing to acknowledge that and bear the responsibility for breaking these simple and reasnable rules. If you selected "Yes" and violate these terms then you lied and get what you deserve. They are clear and concise

AND BE PREPARED TO ANSWER QUIESTIONS ABOUT ANY OF THE RULES HERE JUST AS I AM: If you Read "SandraLyn" then you understand the Whys and wherefores of these rules, if you still have not done so, take this opportunity to read about what is SandraLyn since that is the backbone of what we are and what keeps this place sane, stable, ladylike and true to real life and time

In keeping wiht the SandraLyn ideals, this is the Code of Conduct for all things SandraLyn. It is designed to keep things

1. legal
2. as historically and culturally accurate as possible
3. feminine
4. clearly understandable
5. orderly
6. fair
7. easy to use
8. from degenerating into a freak hole, creep show or pig sty

1. KEEP IT AWAY FROM REAL MINORS-No one under 21 is allowed in ANY SandraLyn Activities. All persons referred to here are either fictional or adult. NO REAL MINORS are allwed in contact or referred to.

IN PARTICULAR: That means, to start off with, there are certain discussions we are NOT having:

• Poop
• Little Boy, daddy or anything like that
• Sissy, anything with "fur" in it or any Mondo Bizarro
• Disposable Diapers. The only such was "Dryper" coming out in 1953 which still needed rubber panties and were not that much used and would not be used here because of wastefulness and "fussiness". needing special panties that were part of the system
• Nylon, PUL or PEVA baby panties
• Adult Sex
• Spanking, Bondage or S&M. We have our onw kind of discipline
• No Terms like "Lifestyle", "fetish", "kink(y)" are used here because they are self-conscious, therefore distractions and take away from what is important to you and us here
• "Plushie", "stuffies" and bears are replaced by Dolly. Onesies, rompers and footed sleepers are replaced by nighties and babydolls Jeans or slacks and tops are replaced by dresses, skirts, jumpers and blouses. Notice I said "replaced"!
• Punk
• anything after 1954 unless it is filling in to replace something from then or before
• unrelated to topic:
  • Work or school
  • Religion, Philosophy, Politics, causes,"Pirde" or any "Agenda": We do not want to get caught up in that whole mess and they are a distraction here. There is no "Rainbow" discussion here AT ALL. We take you asis 3NE: No Exceptions, No Exemptions, No Excuses. You are judged here by what you say and do and stand or fall as an individual person, not by what group you claim membership in
  • We reject totally the current practice of using "transexual" and "transgender" interchangeably. The first refers to physiology and is usually expressed as "being trapped in the wrong body". The second is purely psychological: as one Little Girl put it years ago "Sex is physical; gender is between the ears". Many, if not most, TG's are perfectly happy with what they are physically. the interchangeable use of the two makes for less clarity and understanding. We wish to avoid that foggy thinking because it serves no good purpose
  • Unrelated medical, health or psychologcal issues are distractions. Take them up with professionals in the field, We have not the time, training, tools, facilities or resources for any of that

We have a LIST OF WORDS THAT WE USE AND EXPECT YOU TO KNOW PLEASE! WE DO NOT WISH TO HAVE TO CHIDE YOU ABOUT YOUR LANGUAGE. ALSO CONTACT COURTESEY and ETTIQUETTE, WE DO NOT WANT TO HAVE TO CHIDE YOU ABOUT BEING DUMB. So DO READ THEM